As the new year approaches many things change, and will change whether intended or not. Recently, I have had a change in friendship. You will always have at least one friend, no matter what you think. That one friend is you. You have to become your own bestfriend and by doing that you will make a lot of other friends in the process. Being alone should not make you lonely or depressed. When you are alone do something you like no matter what someone else thinks, because everyone is different, and people are just people. Know your limits and set them. In my case that is what ended one of my friendships. She started to become friends with people who were making bad choices which I did not agree with. It was not I had a different opinion, I had different morals which I am not willing to break. The rambling point I am trying to make is you don't have to be friends with anyone and if they make you feel uncomfortable they are not really your friends. In the end you are the only person who has to live with your choices.

As my first blog post I decided to for something simple. This is just a cotton plant that grew outside my house. Yes, I understand it is a weed, but always try to find the beauty in something that seems discouraging. I believe more people today need to realize this and appreciate it happening because that one experience can only happen to you. I mean other people can go through the same thing, but not with your view point and knowledge. So often I find people saying that they have just gone through a negative experience that's when I tend to question them. Was it really a negative experience? In everything you do comes something great whether that be a new opportunity or a chance to make an impact in something or someone. Now, with that being said something like anxiety and if you have experienced it before you know that it is very hard to get through, but whether you believe that or not there is some good in anxiety. Anxiety gives you knowledge and experience. After going through so many panic attacks I now know how to help someone else when going through it. I would not have been able to otherwise and I find that great. To sum it up you can use everything to your advantage. I challenge you to take one negative experience and find something great about it.

I assume you now realize that this is a chance to get my feelings out. That can range from bullying and depression to fashion and beauty. This is just something that can help me vent and hopefully help someone else. I would also like to say thank you for reading this, and it really means a lot.

                                                                                                                    Yours Truly